There are two things that can motivate a person in life; the fear of pain and the desire for pleasure. I choose pleasure, for the most part, that’s what I choose. I choose to feel it in my life as I have never felt it before, but with that comes a price… In my old traditional culture, there seems to be a certain condemnation when speaking of pleasure. Like it’s a sin. What’s your pleasure? What brings you pleasure? Such uncomfortable questions. But why? It shouldn’t be. Exploring own pleasures, not only in sex, but in everyday simple things is how most decisions should be based on. If we’re living this human life as an experiment, then we should gravitate towards the experiments that give us pleasure. Simply, this will lead to more joyful moments, and a more pleasant overall experience. But let’s for a minute talk about sex and pleasure. That’s tricky. Many, especially women, have a difficult time to fully surrender, to fully receive. How often do we rather give than take… It feels easier. To be able to fully trust, and become that vulnerable, one has to feel safe. And that takes time. Allowing a lover to learn about the partner’s physical body and pleasure is a form of surrendering to pleasure. Most women are too eager to please, however. They avoid the slower exploration of own sexuality and skin. But, I’ve come to think that sex should be a perfect balance between pain and pleasure. Without the symmetry, sex becomes a routine rather than a sacred intimacy. I want to experience. I want to indulge. I want to feel this pleasure of intimacy. I’m a Lover and seeming one .. My curiosity and creativity have gone wild and I love it! Where will it take me? Where will I find myself? Exploring new lifestyle. One thing I do know, I don’t like to be ignored… or rather she. She loves attention, admiration and pleasure. Yes, pleasure. She’s looking for pleasure. The type of pleasure that will make all the pain worth it. Ha! Because after all, the greatest pleasure of life is.. LOVE. And with that, there sure to be pain.
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